My Master, said that God would not have made man and woman without a purpose. Therefore, suppression of natural instinct (abstinence) is not encouraged . We have to regulate it with love and concern for others so that any guilt feeling is avoided. It is the feeling of guilt that becomes samskara. So, instead of ruminating over samskaras, we should develop constant remembrance of Master. Remembrance cannot be put away when we think or do things in the physical or material spheres. Master does not want us to go to Him as penitents laden with guilt. If we go to Him as children laden with dust, it shall be His responsibility to wash us clean.